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Letting go of someone you truly love is no easy feat. Unfortunately, not everyone we meet and love is destined to be in our lives forever. Here is a list of all the signs that your ex is never coming back.
By familiarizing yourself with this list, you can avoid wasting precious and precious time waiting for someone who is long gone.
I realized that when we decide to wait for one person, we are unknowingly rejecting the other.
What if waiting for your ex to come back, you lose someone who could have been the next love of your life?
Here's a quick rundown of 15 signs your ex is never coming back:
- Your ex blocks you on all social media platforms.
- Your ex has completely refused to get back together.
- Your ex has not initiated any contact indefinitely.
- Your ex is back with an old lover.
- Your ex is married.
- Your ex hates you.
- Your ex simply moved with the times.
- Your ex talks bad about you to mutual friends and family.
- Your ex is telling you to move on.
- Your ex never loved you.
- Your ex is getting all your stuff back.
- Your ex is rude and cold to you.
- Your ex is not a flirt at all.
- Your ex has silly excuses for not getting back together.
- Your ex is really happy with his life.
Let's take a closer look at each of these signs. Try to be objective when measuring your status against these signs so you have a good idea of where you stand with your ex.
1. Your ex blocks you on all social media platforms
I hate to break it to you, but someone who plans to return isn't going to cut off all communication and burn bridges.
Blocking on social media platforms sends a very simple message –I don't even want to be reminded of you anymore.
Your ex is on a mission to move on and erase all reminders of you.
We've all accepted it at some point. It hurts and adds fuel to the fire of rejection. It's one of the modern signs that your ex is never coming back.
But stranger things have happened, so I stand to be corrected.
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2. Your ex has clearly refused to get back together
If you've done everything in the book to get your ex back, whether it's good tactics like no contact or bad tactics like chasing and begging, if none of that works and your ex refuses to reconcile, it might be time to end the relationship gloves
He or she just doesn't come back. They have firmly decided to move on and nothing you do or say can change that.
Maybe over time, your ex will change his mind and opinion, especially after life throws some perspective-changing events at him.
But for now, we'll take rejection as a clear sign that your ex is never coming back.
3. Your ex has not initiated any contact for an indefinite period of time
No contact is used as a means to get your ex back or forever. If he is a tipno contact has been initiated, there is a greater chance that he will try to distance himself from you once and for all.
The longer you don't hear from your ex, the more it becomes one of the signs that your ex is never coming back.
This is especially true if you try to contact your ex via text or call and they never respond.
Being ignoredit's a clear sign of an ex who won't come back.
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4. Your ex went back to an old lover
It is absolutely miserable when you have to watch your partner go back to an ex or an old lover because they often question their feelings during the relationship.
It's dangerous to be in a recovered relationship, especially when you know that the man or woman you just got out of is loaded with a lot of baggage and a long history.
These situations often lead to your partner going back to their ex or breaking up with you because they realize their heart is still attached to their old lover.
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5. Your ex is married
People get married because they are in love with someone, under family pressure or because they feel they can't do better.
The first reason is a clear sign that your ex will never come back.
If they married for convenience, it usually means that she thought about all the people she's been with and decided that none of them deserve a second chance.
Either way, when your ex gets married, it's best to get it over with and move on with your life completely. Do not wait for them and do not grasp at straws in the hope that they will return. It's not worth it.
6. Your ex hates you
Amicable breakups have a great chance of being reconciled along the way because they end with good feelings and respect, but when your ex hates you, it's game over.
Hate is such a powerful emotion and is usually fueled by betrayal, abuse or humiliation.
If the reason for the breakup falls into any of the above categories and your ex hates you, then this is one of the strong signs that your ex will never come back.
No amount of apologies will change that.
7. Your ex simply moved with the times
You know, they say time heals all wounds. And I couldn't agree with that. Over time, we gain new wisdom and perspective. Events in our lives shape the way we think and the people we want.
Since we are all in a constant state of change,Your ex may not be the same person as them.
What they liked changed.This means that there is a chance that you are no longer the type of person to get involved with your ex.And vice versa.
It was further perpetuated by someone who was actively trying to come to terms with the past while looking to the future.
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8. Your ex talks bad about you to mutual friends and family
Your ex wouldn't go out of his way to make a bad impression about you if he still cared. Bad talking about you to mutual friends and family indicates their feelings and opinion about you.
It's not as if they haven't weighed the possibility of their views being passed on to you.They just don't care what you think anymore.
And if so, take what they say at face value because they probably mean it.
Respect and love go hand in hand.
If your ex talks about you in a disrespectful tone, the message is clear –they are no longer in love with you and they are jealous.
If this isn't one of the signs that your ex is never coming back, I don't know what is.
9. Your ex tells you to move on
When an ex is ambivalent about a decision, he usually avoids direct and direct remarks.
If they see reconciliation as a possibility, your ex will avoid telling you to move on or reject you outright.They will be ambiguous and let fate decide what will happen.
It is also a safety mechanism. Your ex will try to keep you behind in case his search for something better fails.
In such a case, there is definitely a good chance that your ex will come back.
Unfortunately, if your ex insists that the two of you will never get back together and that you should move on, believe them because they are being honest.
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10. Your ex never loved you
I think this can be the most frustrating thing we have to deal with because we all just assume that the ex we loved felt the same way.
Unfortunately, some people get into relationships for reasons other than love.They could be lonely, narcissistic, desperate and bored with their lives.
I can't help but feel taken advantage of in this situation. Once this relationship is over, your ex will never come back because there is no good enough reason to.
11. Your ex returns all your things
Out with the old, in with the new. We clear space in our lives to invite new people and experiences.
Getting all your stuff back is just another nail in the coffin.Your ex makes it clear that he wants a clean slate to move on and start over.
They may even threaten to throw things at you if you don't pick them up, and this passive-aggressive behavior can turn into indifference and/or aversion.
Your ex is trying to cut off all ties with you. Better to take your things back and move on.
12. Your ex is rude and cold to you
Immediately after the breakup, it is not something to dismiss when the ex acts distant, cold or rude.
They probably hurt and break out.
But when enough time has passed and your ex seems to have broken up, if he continues to be rude and cold towards you, then this is probably a sign of dislike or hatred.
That's not how we treat people we care about, especially when time has passed and the wounds have healed.
Watch exes when they meet after years and you will see that those who do not hate each other are warm and friendly. They try to avoid malice and rudeness.Nostalgia warms them together.
Exes who dislike or resent each other will be cold and rude.
If this is the case with you, then it is definitely one of the signs that your ex will never come back.
13. Your ex is not a flirt at all
Flirting with your ex is not unusual because it seems familiar. Attraction is hard to deny, especially if it resulted in a romantic relationship before.
This is also the reason why people return to their exes. But if your ex-boyfriend seems to be with you, it could be a cause for concern.
It is very difficult to avoid flirting with someone when there is a high level of attraction.
The fact that your ex has been acting platonic towards you for a long time may mean that you are no longer romantically attracted to him or that he has moved on.
Either way, being friendly even though you've taken the right action is a sign that your ex will never come back.
14. Your ex makes silly excuses not to get back together
- It's not your fault, it's mine. "If it's meant to be, we will be." "I'm confused about my life and I just need to be alone for a while." "Maybe one day we'll find our way back together." - You deserve better than me.
These are nothing but lame and soft ways to turn you down without hurting your feelings.
Your ex doesn't think so. He or she just wants to avoid any drama. They try to let you down easily.
Don't even waste your time on these links because they mean nothing more than your ex not wanting you to get back together.
15. Your ex is really happy with his life
Why do we go back to our ex?Because we love them, are sad without them, and/or have unfinished business.
When none of these things are present, there is no reason for your ex to come back.
You may notice it in their behavior and life.
You hear from mutual friends that your ex is doing well. Their social media is full of really good and happy updates. You are treated with respect and courtesy if you bump into or talk to.
These are all signs of someone who has come to terms with the past. If he or she is truly satisfied with their life, there is no reason for them to return.
Don't wait endlessly for your ex
I hope at this point you have a good understanding of what signs to look out for when trying to figure out if your ex is coming back or not.
This situation can be difficult to deal with, but honesty is the best policy. Being honest with yourself might just save you a huge amount of pain and wasted effort.
It is not worth sacrificing your precious time to someone who has decided to leave your life.
Focusing on people who see your value and appreciate you is much more satisfying and fulfilling.
Don't devalue yourself in front of someone who will never come back to you.
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